{"id":630,"date":"2004-09-27T21:38:45","date_gmt":"2004-09-28T01:38:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.test.bradblog.com\/?p=630"},"modified":"2004-09-27T21:38:45","modified_gmt":"2004-09-28T01:38:45","slug":"selfish-hedonist-of-the-moment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/?p=630","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Selfish Hedonist&#8217; of the Moment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"center\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/BradBlog.com\/Images\/MayaKeyesKiss.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Yes, she&#8217;s a lesbian. According to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.xanga.com\/home.aspx?user=Xmisled0youthX\" target=\"_blank\">her own blog<\/a> and that of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.xanga.com\/home.aspx?user=AvaAdore\" target=\"_blank\">her girlfriend<\/a>. They both posted this picture on the internet as I understand it. I saw it at her girlfriend&#8217;s site who also has a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gay.com\/personals\/profile\/view.html?name=gracefire\" target=\"_blank\">gay.com profile<\/a> (with more Maya pics).<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s been <a href=\"http:\/\/chillinois.blogspot.com\/2004\/09\/these-were-not-private-posts.html\" target=\"_blank\">much handwringing in the leftie blogosphere<\/a> about this picture, and others from the series, and the idea of publicizing Maya&#8217;s sexuality at all. She is, after all, a 19 year old girl who can&#8217;t be blamed for being the daughter of a near-psychotically conservative Republican U.S. Senatorial candidate from <strike>Maryland<\/strike> Illinois who <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bradfriedman.com\/BradBlog\/archives\/00000460.htm\">recently called<\/a> Dick Cheney&#8217;s lesbian daughter a &#8220;selfish hedonist&#8221; because she was gay. Also, she was not outted by anyone other than herself on her own blog. Her <a href=\"http:\/\/profiles.yahoo.com\/dangerousanjul\" target=\"_blank\">Yahoo ID<\/a> is &#8220;dangerousanjul&#8221;. Indeed.<\/p>\n<p>I too though, thought long and hard before blogging at all on this, and I believe it was finally this passage from Maya&#8217;s rather moving blog that moved me to go ahead and jump in here:<\/p>\n<div class=\"media\">my parents and I were seriously not getting along and so we needed some time off from each other; the idea was that after a year of being a wonderful good helping-the-poor type person they would once again like me and therefore be willing to pay for my college I&#8217;m not so sure that part of it will work; despite the fact that I&#8217;m all about working for global justice THEY don&#8217;t care about that, THEY only care that I am an evil dyke.<\/p>\n<p>And even if I am a charitable dyke I am still a dyke who KISSES GIRLS and especially with the gay marriage thing going on now that&#8217;s at the front of their minds. So I think I might get back to find out they still don&#8217;t like me and I won&#8217;t have a college to go to.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Basically, this young girl describes having the gift of an education being held hostage from her by her parents because she is gay. I guess that&#8217;s the &#8220;Compassionate Conservativism&#8221; we&#8217;ve heard so much about. Or would that be &#8220;Family Values&#8221;? (See <a href=\"http:\/\/chillinois.blogspot.com\/2004\/09\/these-were-not-private-posts.html\" target=\"_blank\">chillinois&#8217; excellent chronical<\/a> of many of today&#8217;s events for more of those moving passages and other commentary from the &#8216;sphere. The articles at Maya&#8217;s girlfriend&#8217;s blog &#8212; who&#8217;s mother seems to be similarly intolerant\/cruel are also an object lesson in shame.)<\/p>\n<p>That Maya has been pointing to her own blog for quite a while via her posts on a Keyes Campaign Message Group strikes me &#8212; for all of my armchair psychiatry &#8212; as a cry for help. Well, if America regains its senses and John Kerry is elected, perhaps as he likes to say &#8220;help is on the way&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>One may note the suprising number of hard-right Conservatives with homosexuals in their immediate family (prominently Cheney&#8217;s daughter, Gingrich&#8217;s sister, now Keyes&#8217; daughter) and wonder how it is they manage to justify the hatred &#8212; yes, hatred &#8212; that they perpetuate on a daily basis. Through their words, their deeds, and their passive (and not so passive) tolerance for those that who oppress, deny, belittle, hurt, harm, hate and even <a href=\"https:\/\/BradBlog.com\/TakeYourCountryBack.htm\">advocate the murder<\/a> of other humans solely on the basis of their sexual identities. All in the name of a few more votes.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps there is hope in this accidentally ironic thought of Alan Keyes from his recent <a href=\"http:\/\/americablog.blogspot.com\/archives\/2004_08_29_americablog_archive.html#109408807453129635\" target=\"_blank\">hateful interview<\/a>; &#8220;In the child, the two [parents] transcend their persons and unite together to become a new individual.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We can only hope.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, she&#8217;s a lesbian. According to her own blog and that of her girlfriend. They both posted this picture on the internet as I understand it. I saw it at her girlfriend&#8217;s site who also has a gay.com profile (with more Maya pics). There&#8217;s been much handwringing in the leftie blogosphere about this picture, and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"ep_exclude_from_search":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"coauthors":[],"class_list":["post-630","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","bb-type-bradblog"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/630","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=630"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/630\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=630"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=630"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=630"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bradblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcoauthors&post=630"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}